Christian – Jason W. Triplett

May 30, 2023May 31, 2023

Last Snuggles, Last Smiles, Last Sighs

1 Samuel 1:27–28 (ESV) “For this child I prayed, and the Lord has granted me my petition that I made to him. Therefore I have lent him to the Lord. As long as he lives, he is lent to the Lord.”

You are not bone of my bones, or flesh of my flesh, but you are heart of my heart. My prayer, as you go, is that your life will become one with God in the Spirit of Christ. I love you little boy, you are my son. You are loved no less than any other precious son we have.

We prayed for you. For two years, we thought of that first foster placement. Not knowing that God had you in mind all along. He’s used you to answer all my questions about being a foster father. Could I love someone else’s child like I love our biological children? Would I accept you as part of our household? Would I be able to graft you into the tree of our family? I’ve been reminded of 2 Corinthians…

2 Corinthians 1:20 (ESV) “For all the promises of God find their Yes in him. That is why it is through him that we utter our Amen to God for his glory.”

The answers to all my questions were yes. I think this is because my questions all find their foundation in God’s promises to us in Christ. Does God love us, born of men, as He would His own children? Absolutely Yes. Does He accept us as part of His household when He adopts us? Absolutely Yes. Is He able to graft us into His family, as blood brothers with Christ, so that there is no visible line between us and Him? Absolutely Yes. And so God’s spirit has moved in me with you, little boy. And today we enjoy our last snuggles, last smiles and last little sighs with the ache of letting you go safely to your new family.

Little boy, our Heavenly Father has used you to teach me about His heart. I pray He’s used me to teach you likewise. In creating us, God knew the risk. He knew His heart would be broken. In welcoming you, for all the hope we had of maybe not needing to say goodbye, we now know the similar aching affection I’m sure God has felt repeatedly. I know it’s not exactly the same. For our Lord’s grace has given us a glimpse not of pain, but of loving people through His eyes. Yet, I’m staggered by the heart of God, the depth of His never-ending love for all of us. I pray, little boy, that one day you would be able to celebrate and proclaim the same.

It’s to a good family and to a good place you go. A place of love and belonging. I believe that. We will lay you in your basket upon the waters, with hope and joy at having had you for a little while. We’ve prayed for you to come and we will pray for you daily as you drift on your way. We hold to the belief that we’ve at least changed your life by a degree. We hold to the Lord’s varied angle, that God’s slight alteration of your course will accumulate over your life to a very different destiny than you would have had. And for now, knowing that through God’s Will, by His Word and in His Way, we’ve held you, we can say goodbye and always know, you are most certainly loved.

March 6, 2022March 6, 2022

Christians, We Need to Talk

Have you ever been asleep on your feet? It’s a dangerous thing. Your body is still moving, but your mind drifts, fades and then you lose awareness of where you are and what you’re doing. Sleep takes over. Most people simply decide to go to bed at that point. But what if you need to stay awake?

I used to work the night shift. I picked up three nights a week at a local distribution warehouse where I pulled orders and loaded pallets for delivery. It wasn’t hard work. They provided all the equipment and clothing to work there. They started you off slowly, trained you well and did their best to ensure you’d be successful working for the company. The hardest part was from midnight to around 3am when my body and mind started demanding sleep.

I noticed a trick that some of the other workers would do to stay awake in those magic hours of the night. They’d talk to one another. Some of them were really good at their jobs, could pace themselves and still make their rate for the night. They wouldn’t get all their work done right away, they’d work for a while and then take five minutes to have a conversation, then continue on. Others would literally run their mouths all night long. They’d shout across the warehouse at each other. They’d yell, cheer or sing loudly. Some would stop and tell each other jokes. The laughter kept things lively in the place.

There’s a quote from the story “The Pilgrim’s Progress” by John Bunyan. The main character Pilgrim and his companion Hopeful are journeying together. This is how it reads.

“Christian and Hopeful, as they journeyed towards the Celestial City, said to themselves, ‘To prevent drowsiness in this place, let us fall into good discourse.’ Christian enquired, ‘Brother, where shall we begin?’ And Hopeful answered, ‘Where God began with us.'”(1)

Here, the two decide that in order to stay awake for their journey, they’d have good conversation about what God is doing and has done for them. Following this thought is immensely important in this day where we can so easily ‘fall asleep’. We can fall sleep when we immerse ourselves the world of voices which drown out the voice of God in our lives. We are in danger of drowsing when we pay more attention to the signs of the stock market over the signs of the times. Our heads can nod when we are more concerned with the latest trends over the ancient wisdom.

The Apostle Paul says it this way.

“So then let us not sleep, as others do, but let us keep awake and be sober. For those who sleep, sleep at night, and those who get drunk, are drunk at night. But since we belong to the day, let us be sober, having put on the breastplate of faith and love, and for a helmet the hope of salvation.” 1 Thessalonians 5:6–8 (ESV)

We are tempted to sleep each night when the darkness surrounds us. We turn out the light, we nestle in our beds and trust there is safety in the dark. Without God, there is no safety in the spiritual darkness of the world. We cannot afford to nod off while it envelops us and others.

Notice what else Paul says in this text. See what guards us as we stay awake, gazing into the darkness. Our hearts are protected by our faith and the love of God. Our minds are overseen by the hope of our salvation in Jesus Christ. We will need all three of these; faith, love and hope. Even though in the darkness, where evil and sin run rampant, these virtues seem to be missing.

In the darkness, faith is replaced by either fear or self-sufficiency. Love, the sacrifice of self for others, is replaced with the sacrifice of others for self. And hope, the belief that rescue is coming, sits upon false foundations of human performance instead of the Lord’s provision.

As Christians walk to that celestial city, traversing the world and speaking the name of Jesus to those who will hear, we need companions who’ll remind us of God’s wondrous works and continual faithfulness. We need good Christian conversation which elevates God’s goodness and the joy of our salvation above the murk.

Otherwise we might walk alone, look into the abyss and see the darkness as the solitary thing. We’d be tempted to submit to it, make ourselves comfortable, close our eyes and be consumed.

(1) Spurgeon, C. H. Morning and Evening: Daily Readings. London: Passmore & Alabaster, 1896. March 6th Entry.

September 3, 2020September 3, 2020

Genuine Unity and Harmony are Found through Faith

“The Lord looks down from heaven on the children of man, to see if there are any who understand, who seek after God. They have all turned aside; together they have become corrupt; there is none who does good, not even one.” Psalm 14:2–3 (ESV)

We want safety. We want certainty and guarantees. We want leaders, organizations and institutions to be solid, trustworthy and true. Lately, we seem to be finding none. There isn’t a leader, organization or institution who doesn’t currently suffer under some sort of scrutiny. From police departments to the federal supreme court, from social justice movements to local non-profits; all are being savagely examined. We have this feeling of betrayal as we hold these entities in good faith yet find them lacking.

Don’t think so? I disagree based on what I see. There’s one sure sign that indicates we are in an age where we collectively feel as if none can be trusted. Our uncertainty and upheaval, our penchant for moral dissection, our suspicion of all things is signaled by an ever-increasing division among the public.

Division is the taking of sides. One group stands in opposition to another, believing in their organizations, leaders and information hubs. Each side stands in scrutiny of the other, therefore all are under scrutiny. One of the worst things about COVID-19, our current cultural unrest and an election year is the polarity we are all feeling. Division is caused by disagreement. Disagreement is caused by the clash of ideas. No one’s exactly sure what information is trustworthy, so no ideas can really be trusted. Add in that we seem to have lost the ability to civilly mitigate our disagreements. Viola! A divided, skeptical and cynical public.

Division in times like these is a symptom and escalator of our problems and not any kind of solution. It makes no sense to oppose racial tension and division by using opposition and division. You can’t fight a virus if we can’t collectively decide what it is and how best to stop it based on solid information. The divisions increase and the situation becomes worse. Then our perspectives lead us to unfairly judge and separate from one another even in our small rural corner of Illinois.

I think the problem is the premise. It’s in the first line of this post. We all want safety, certainty and guarantees when nothing is really safe, nothing is certain and there are no guarantees. Yet, we demand these things from our societal leaders and entities.

No one can withstand the absolute demands of a fearful public. No organization or person can withstand absolute scrutiny. If we look closely enough we will see that all are fractured and corrupt. All have flaws. Broken leadership, institutions and organizations are the rule, not the exception as they are comprised of broken human members.

Maybe we should stop looking to leaders, institutions and organizations for certainty. Maybe we should accept that the world has never been a safe place. Life is worth all the uncertainty associated with it, but do you need guarantees to walk out of your front door? Most do not. I don’t. Maybe we should engage the adventure and risk. Safety, certainty and guarantees are only found by faith. In what should we put our faith when all other things are shaken?

We might not agree on these things. Through faith in Christ I (and many others) have decided to no longer stand on the guarantees, certainty or safety this world offers. Staking my claim on anything else tends to separate me from you. At this time I’m sensing that it’s supremely important that we work, in good faith, to close any division that might be between us.